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Its READY!!!!!!!!

Thank you for your patience for this exciting project. Websites In An Hour Or Less Webinar.

This has been so much fun to create and I am excited to share it with you.Ever since I pulled together the Coaching Business Essentials Program last Fall I’ve been wanting to share these ideas on building quick & easy websites with people.

I know this is a huge issue for many coaches. They don’t have websites either because it is too difficult to set up, too expensive, too frustrating or simply they don’t know what to put on their website. I trust that this program and process is painless, fun, and inspiring enough for you to act and get your new website up today.

The program is offered in a webinar (flash media recording of my computer screen while I walk you through step by step what is involved.) It picks up where the Coaching Business Essentials leaves off in the area of Web Presence. This is the HOW-TO do it part.

The program is divided up in 8 segments making it easy to digest and learn, pause the program, do it yourself and then continue. There is also a resource website set up and continually being added for support. It was created using the techniques taught in the class.

For the next two weeks the price will be $39 (half price from $79) as a get the kinks out of the system discount, but I think we’ve got most of those handled, but your feedback would be greatly appreciated.

I’ve set up a web storefront where you can buy and download the program http://www.matthewrochte.com/store/

and a website where you can catch a preview/teaser film of the program before you buy at http://www.WebsitesInAnHour.com

Get your copy today before the price goes up 3/21

Affiliates & Tell A Friend!I think this program is so great that you will want to tell your friends about it. And if you are going to do that, why not let you in on some of the profit. So I am currently setting up an Affiliate Program for this program as well as my other programs and will send an announcement when it is is ready. ETA - 9 March 2007
Till then feel free to use the Tell-A-Friend service on the website
Thanks & EnjoyThis concludes the announcement for the new Websites In An Hour Webinar Program. I hope you purchase and enjoy it. I would love your feedback on the program when you are done. There is a link to a survey on the main page(index page of download) and on the resource sheet. Thanks.

I’ve just had a great two days with poet David Whyte.  We were playing with courageous conversations.   He shared with us last night one that is still ringing in my ears.

Sometimes

Sometimes
if you move carefully
through the forest,

breathing
like the ones
in the old stories,

who could cross
a shimmering bed of leaves
without a sound,

you come
to a place
whose only task

is to trouble you
with tiny
but frightening requests,

conceived out of nowhere
but in this place
beginning to lead everywhere.

Requests to stop what
you are doing right now,
and

to stop what you
are becoming
while you do it,

questions
that can make
or unmake
a life,

questions
that have patiently
waited for you,

questions
that have no right
to go away.

~David Whyte from Everything Is Waiting For You

Hi all,

Here’s something that’s been brewing in me for a while. I received a comment yesterday from someone that got me stirred up enough to write about it. (or maybe it was my inner god).

I hear all the time about goddess programs, goddess groups, awesome women groups, crone circles, wise women enclaves, goddess training, women empowerment groups, etc. Where are the male equivalents? Before anyone gets on the their high horse that those groups came out of the response to the overwhelming male dominated society - I grant that.

AND

As a child of progressive parents who raised my brother and I endogenously and to recognize that women are equal to men I have grown up to be a male feminist. My closest colleagues are women and have surrounded myself with awesome women role models.

That’s great AND

I feel like we’re missing something. Like the balance has been tipped too far the other way. For example when and why has it become acceptable to have national women’s networking groups but not acceptable to have nationwide male networking group? I think the historical argument was valid, but the world is changing, women are changing, men are changing, society is changing. Do women still need to learn about their own personal power and goddess withing? Absolutely! AND that is not the point of my comments here.

My point is, What about the men? What about the conscious men out there who see women as equal partners in life yet while being supportive of women they feel like they have lost their identity of being male, of being the gods (to use the same god/goddess metaphor, Even now as I am writing this I have a twinge of embarrassment in using that word, like I don’t have the rite to use it, but it is ok to use goddess). Are we not all gods and goddesses?

Where are the programs for gods AND goddesses?

Where are the programs for male energy ritual? rites of passage? The ones that celebrate the male spirit? male comradeship (outside of the inane sports metaphors)? The ones that explore what it means to be male in todays society and how to be the best men we can be? What would that look like? Instead of saying what is wrong with men - what is right about us? What is enviable? What is good? What is sacred? What is grounding? What is uplifting? in the male energy.

The Mankind project and its ilk are one variety of maleness training. They seem outdated. They seem to be outgrowths of the 60s&80s - go to the forest, chant, scream, cry and then return to your family and obligations. They seem to make men wrong to make them right. It is not an attractive option for me.

What is the creative, resourceful and whole approach?

I want more. I want a program that is evolved. I want a program that shares with me why I should be proud to be a man. I want a program that shares with me how together men and women will create a better place on earth. I want a place where it is ok to talk about and express and be with all of our emotions anger, love, empathy, wounds, delight, joy, ecstasy. With out being made wrong for doing so.

Comments welcome. Solicitations not! Discussion about coming together/partnering to talk about creating such a program may be of interest.

Feels great getting that out there.

Matthew Egan Rochte

Conscious Human
Conscious Man
Conscious Capitalist

me

http://www.MatthewRochte.com
http://www.MakingTheWorldRoundAgain.com
http://www.ConversationCircle.com

“When given a choice between kindness and being right, choose kindness.” Dr. Wayne Dyer

Back in October, when I was speaking at the Northland Bioneers Conference, I had the opportunity to listen to Paul Hawken (author of Ecology of Commerce). He humbled me and inspired me. Paul Hawken is an amazingly peaceful, exceedingly gentle, and powerful human presence. Listening to Paul was like sitting in the presence of the Dali Lama. The room was quiet and he had our wrapped attention.

He spoke of this movement that we are all a part of. How we have all been entrenched in our camps of “Social Justice”, “Environmentalism”, “Green”, “Orange”, “Brown”, etc. That this movement is so much larger than that. “There is no green movement without a black, brown and copper colored movement.” He said that the movement we are all in is one of ending suffering for all. That we must realize that we are all part of the same movement and that until we do we will be fragmented and ineffectual. However when we come together and the environmentalist feels the pain of the inner city youth and the when the inner city youth feels the pain of the forest being logged - then we’ll be united.

He followed this message with an equally powerful one.

” ‘There comes a time’ when this must stop. (evoking MLK’s classic phrase) We can not disparage, ridicule, or belittle others anymore.”
He was referring to the inner rivalries between the different groups within our movement. However, I found it land deeply and personally. For several years now I have taken the stand that sarcasm is sanction verbal violence and I don’t want it in my life. When I heard these words from Paul I was ashamed. I had been troubled by a letter I had written to a friend earlier that day and now I knew why. Most would never have noticed it and even the friend to whom I was writing hadn’t noticed it either. It is because it so prevalent pervasive in our society.

I had let sarcasm into the reply. The sarcasm was a way of belittling her, which was completely unnecessary other than to stroke my ego. I knew I was in trouble with myself and even toned it down so it was sweetly subtle, but deep down I wanted to be RIGHT. That was about me not her. In my kindness of a response I chose to be RIGHT too and thus negated the kindness.

Paul’s comments are embedded in my conscious mind.
So when I came across an email today
“When given a choice between kindness and being right, choose kindness.” Dr. Wayne Dyer

I knew I had to share it.

Yours in spirit and in friendship

I’ve posted a recording of the Bioneer’s Presentation I did last Saturday on the

http://www.MakingTheWorldRoundAgain.com website

This weekend I had a fantastically fun experience of riding on a seven person bike around downtown Minneapolis. Bev Lutz coordinated this fabulous prize for the MCA Silent Auction/Birthday present for herself. CycleSeven.com has been in Minneapolis for a year and conducts 7 person conference bike tours around downtown or any where your group wants to go. It is a great team building exercise for business or party option for birthday, friendship, prizes, silent auctions etc.

On a day that was forcast for rain, rain, and more rain, we found the dry spot in the day and had a blast. Our positive energy chased the rain away! On the ride was Paul (our driver not pictured), Bev Lutz, John Borgen, Susan Hawkins, Joan Haan, ME!, Jeanne Murphy.

Some more photos: Bev & Susan, John & Paul, Bev & Susan

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Matthew Rochte is a 15 year coaching veteran/seasoned coach and now coaches experienced coaches on integrated approaches to coaching, coaching from within, touching the client’s soul, Spiral Dynamics, and work with self deception.  This is also where Matthew hosts his Basics of Business for Coaches programs.