Mon 21 Mar 2005
“We can only evolve as much as the community we associate with.”
Choose your community!
Here are the communities I have seen walking around the lake. (the timing may be a little off but this is what I have seen from the lighter half of the year Mar21st-Sept21st.
pre-5:30am (PreDawners) Solo but not alone, peace seekers, happy. Usually walking sometimes running with a dog. Any season, any weather.
5:30-7:00am (Dawners) Happy, full of joy and opportunity with a zest to be alive. Joggers, walkers, friends, chatting, easy, solid walkers for exercise. Willing to risk the cold just to be in the beauty of nature. People make eye contact and say “Good Morning.” Few, if any have earbuds pumping music into their ears. They are listening to nature wake up. They are engaged in life. They are glad to see you.
6:30am - Solo runners start to appear.
6:45am - the attitude shift starts to occur.
7:00-7:30am (Should-ers) Schedules, workouts, and time is of the essence. No time for niceties. Disconnected - plugged in- mediated nature/exercise experience. Have to do this! Faster. Faster. The runners are in packs now. No “good mornings” No eye contact - offended if you do connect. If you are luck you might get a “hello” in response.
7:30-8:30am (Complainers) When the pairs of walkers start to talk loudly about work, money, relationships, business politics, national politics. Insular. No eye contact. No response to greetings.
8:00-9:00 (Casual-ers) Pairs taking strolls around the lake, good friends but tend to themselves unless you engage them in conversation because they are talking loud enough to be overheard. They don’t have be at work until 10 and/or they are solopreneurs. Fre
9:00- 11:30 (kidtime) Mothers and the occasional dad. dogs. kids are often in a bob and the parent is running. These are intensely focused but aware of their environment. Maximize the opportunity. Trios start to appear (men, women, mothers, business people)
11:30-1:30 (Noontimers) Exercise, relief to be out of the office. Don’t have much time. Mix of headphones and conversations usually about work. Lunchers by the shore and on the benches and sometimes walking.
2:00-4:00pm (kidtime)
4:00-5:30pm (Afternooners) Exercise, skaters, youth, mixed activities, socializing within groups. Cordial and offer “good afternoons”
5:15pm - the attitude starts to shift.
5:30-7:00pm (Me-ers) Can’t you see I’m working out! Style is important - what you are wearing says how important you are. You are here to work out and to be seen and if you really want to be seen you go jog around Lake Calhoun. If you are talking on the phone - you are important. Cellphones are with earbuds and a mic on the cord or the new bluetooth headsets. Stray conversations in the wind. There is work to be done. Headphones are par for the course if you are not talking on the phone. Runners come in packs usually in community team jerseys often talking about work or jibing eachother. No smiling unless you are joking with friends. No greetings unless you are picking up someone.
7:00-9:00pm (EveningStroller) More often in the summer than other seasons. Post dinner walks. Slower, casual, cordial, friendly. Good Evening.
It is just goes to show that thought creates and is reality. While I was typing these descriptions I felt my mood shift. I became suspicious of people. I became insular and then open then insular then open. I am now in a place of joy and gratitude. Did you have a similar exerience reading about them?
April 8th, 2005 at 1:49 pm
Hi Mathew:
Your observations are right on. My wife and I walk Lake Harriet at least 3 times a week, either at 7:00AM or 7:00PM. We are aware of the distractions that some adult behavior creates, but if you look beyond those distractions and also check out the dogs, babies in strollers and activity on the lake, i.e. canoers, fishermen, swimmers and beach dwellers, the occasional wind surfer or sail boaters, they are much less distracting and much more relaxing and in harmony with nature. After 18 years of walking around the same lakes, we tend to block out the people-noise and zoom in on the relaxing joy of it all.
See you around the lakes…
Raymond & Jane
April 13th, 2005 at 12:29 am
Hello Raymond & Jane,
Thanks so much for dropping by and adding a comment to my blog.
You make some interesting observations yourself.
The unofficial study I have been doing over the past year has been around when it was acceptable to people to greet them and or smile. I found it rather striking how the time of day played a significant role.
Thanks again and see you around the lake.
Matthew